SOUTHEND

We Were So Close!    (A personal account of almost making it)         2003

Updated January 8, 2006

SOUTHEND, and it's prior incarnation, THE ETERNAL FLAME, the young Pleasanton, Bay Area, band from the 60's and 70's, had a very promising career with concert openings for many older, established, and even famous bands. In many cases, our young band won critical praise over these more well known bands that we had the good fortune to play with on the same bill. We were the up-and-coming young brash band that could stay right up there with these very same older bands. Even today, I get asked a lot how the band members are doing since people in the area remember the band fondly as part of their growing up rite-of-passage.
 
   

In the end, SouthEnd came to the crossroads that many bands found themselves in: to go on tour, go for the final push, or have a life back home with the wife and kids and hopefully come out normal in the end. SouthEnd went the way of many bands - in 1975 some members chose the "normal" life of family, while others chose alternate life paths. But... this is the story of great friendship and determination - come with me while we explore the past.............

 

 

A BRIEF HISTORY:

I was in a rock band once many years ago........and we were good. We were always the younger band playing with the older, more well known, and even famous bands of the day. Yet, in many cases we could outshine these higher paid, recording contracted, groupies-by-the handful bands. This is my personal, though abbreviated, account of those 11 years and the lasting friendships that endure today thanks to something as innocent as music and the generation-changing  times that were the 60's and 70's.

This is also about a very difficult and personal decision whether to go for the gold or look for that "normalcy" in life that a rock and roll band, on top, or working to get to the top, just can't always have.

There are only 3 people who can trace the evolution of this band throughout it's history, and I'm one. Besides me, Mike (Buz) Lusby, the only other two who could possibly do justice to these historical facts are Robert (Bobby C.) Caffey and Scott (Scotty) Rutherford. As I'm sure with any remembrances, our versions may differ, but the essence is true. Though there have been a few fourth members to the band on and off throughout the years, the power trio mentioned here owns the birth-right known as SOUTHEND.

 SouthEnd began life as a grade school band back in 1965, then known as The Eternal Flame (though there were many "first year" names). Robert Caffey (lead vocals and lead guitar), Mike Lusby (drums and backing vocals), and Scott Rutherford (bass guitar and backing vocals) formed the nucleus of the power trio throughout it's 11 year span. Robert and Scott found a common love of rock music and, as most any teenager who saw that awe-inspiring night in 1964 when the Beatles first performed on Ed Sullivan, wanted to start a band. They didn't have to look far for a drummer as I was in the same classroom and shared a love of rock music - and hell, I had part of a drum set! I didn't know what was to come, but damn these two guys were good on the guitar - and I'm talking grade school kids who had the feel for their craft at a very early age.  

 

 

 At that time, a power trio wasn’t known as a viable make-up for a rock band, so we asked Tom Lane and Doug Balaban to join the band in 1965 as background vocals. We practiced night and day preparing for our first battle of the bands at The Alameda County Fairgrounds that same year. Right before the “battle”, Doug dropped out of the band. (Doug went on to musical success with clarinet as his major musical expression). We played The Beatles’ “Day Tripper” and won the contest in our age group. Not long after, Tom left the band. Today, Tom is a well known wine maker in California.

 

               

 

As The Eternal Flame, we entered many battle of the bands contests throughout the Bay Area and won many, even though we were usually much younger than the bands we competed against.

 

 

 

   

    

And, this was a great training ground for sharpening our skills and paying our dues. We practiced every waking moment, played every gig, be it for money or not, and along the way became best friends. We did everything together…….. including walking each other through each and every girlfriend relationship, which usually ended in heartache, when it was obvious we spent more time with the band than with the girls. We fought like brothers, loved like brothers, and shared the best of growing up in the 60's. I dare say that we spent 7 days a week together. This intense concentration of time gave us the power to know each others mannerisms, idiosyncrasies, wants, likes,  and dislikes -  you name it. We could know what the slightest nuance meant with one another. This translated over to our music and our stage presence as we became professionals at our trade. Again, I'm talking about kids who were still very young.... but something was clicking.

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Kirk Williams joined the band as rhythm guitarist and background vocals in 1967 just as we won the role as opening act for a dance/concert at the Alameda County Fairgrounds featuring the band, The Love Street Off Ramp. As would be the case in future shows, The Eternal Flame outperformed the headliners (as evidenced by newspaper critics). Kirk remained with the band through 1969 until we met, who would also be one of my soul mates through High School, Rich Alves.

 

 

 

 

Rich joined the band in 1969 and, sorry to say, Kirk had to be the casualty (but thankfully, Kirk would jam with us often in the future). It only took us a brief minute to hear Rich play the guitar for us to know that he was destined to be part of this band. To this day, hearing his guitar playing to Janis Joplin's version of "Summertime", during one of our live recorded outdoor dance concerts still sounds great to me…..especially since we were all just 14 and 15 years old. 

(1 track mono tape with 1 microphone to capture this outside concert  was all we had back in those days……..pretty crude compared to today……..I can only imagine how this would have sounded had we been able to record this professionally)

To hear samples of this live recording, double click the icons below (This may take a minute):

Eternal Flame - Summertime
Eternal Flame - Summertime

You couple Rich’s playing ability with that of Bobby C. and Scotty and what a triple threat at guitar we had.  I mean these guys were good, very good! And, Rich had the natural ability for singing harmony to Bobby C.'s lead vocals…….it didn’t get much better than that!

                    

 

 

 rich and bobby c in SF

 

  

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It was during this time that things began to open up for us as far as our exposure to playing with more famous bands….bands that were playing The Fillmore, Winterland, etc.

A large rock concert at the fairgrounds put on by promoter, Bill Quarry, featured, along with us, The Loading Zone, Rejoice, Womb and Rest. We were the young band... they were the bands with recording contracts, albums, and tours. As evidenced below, the critics thought we were every bit as good, if not better, than the headliners. We were playing gigs in San Francisco, colleges around the Bay Area, you name it. We felt we were at the edge of something big.

 

 

Bobby C. received a call one day from Bill Quarry explaining how well we had done and how impressed he was with our set. He asked if we would like to open for Creedence Clearwater Revival. We couldn’t believe our luck! To our dismay, Stu, the drummer for Creedence, became ill and the show never came off. I can only imagine how that would have been......dreams are made of these moments.

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Our next gig was a rock concert featuring The People and their latest hit "I Love You" and Canned Heat and their hits “On the Road Again” and “Going up the Country”.  Again, we rocked with the best of them. A new added feature for us was our hard rock version of "Let the Sunshine In", featuring a double-drummer set with me and Rich (a drummer too!). It went over very well.

 

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In the summer of 1970, the band became SOUTHEND. To go along with the name change, the band looked for a keyboardist to add depth to the band. Mike Barbato joined the team and brought his extensive background on the keyboards to the band.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Based on our recent successes, we were asked to perform live on TV broadcast from the Bay Area. It was a great time for us and we performed our version of "For What It's Worth", again featuring our double-drummer set. It couldn't have gone any better.

 

 

 

 

 

A week later: another battle of the bands and outdoor festival was held in Pleasanton and SouthEnd was again victorious.

 

 

 

             

Right after this engagement we played for a festival in Concord and during our set we were approached by two men in their mid-twenties. They were owners of a small independent record company, liked what they heard, and wanted to sign us. Well, we thought our time had finally come. But, as happened to many small record companies in those days, they went out of business before we even put ink to paper. So close....almost there....didn't make it.

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In 1971 Rich and his family were transferred out of the area and a good friend was gone. Rich always wanted to be in music for the rest of his life and he succeeded. Rich went on to fame as a member of the country band "Pirates of the Mississippi". They had top 10 hits and albums and I hear now that Rich is a very sought after session player.

 

I wish I could get in touch with Rich.…………..I would love to spin tales of the past and how life has been up to now. (Hey Rich, remember Gigi?) 

SouthEnd continued on throughout the early to mid-seventies playing the college circuit in many of the same frat-houses and venues as The Doobie Brothers.  Life was good, life was fun, and we were getting older.

One summer we headlined a biker bar in Hayward that was unofficially known as “Reggie's bar”. "Reggie" being Reggie Jackson the pro ball player…..and Reggie was there often - with a girl on each arm. What a summer that was. What a venue that was............rowdy crowds, fights, brawls, naked women, long nights, and lots of laughs. One night one of the brawls involved many of our roadies and friends, which in turn, got us involved too: swinging microphone stands, throwing drums, blood, beer, and stories for the rest of our lives. Due to our summer headlining at “Reggie’s” bar, we were “picked” to play a mini-concert at a Hell’s Angels’ rally/party. You see, many of the patrons at this bar had names like “Crazy Lenny” and “Butcher Bob”……….they were Hell’s Angels and when they “picked” you to play at a rally, you DID NOT say “no”! They liked our band, so we had it easy that summer…and NO ONE gave us crap unless they wanted to get a visit from “THE BOYS”.

(Longest hair stage)

I was married and divorced during this period and my main regret was that my son, Michael, was not old enough to remember seeing his dad in his hey-day, playing the music that he loved with the band he loved. I think my son would have been very proud.

 

 

 

One of our final gigs was at a concert hall in Modesto. It was a large venue with many bands slated for the evening. We rocked hard and loud and made a fantastic showing. After the concert, all the bands and the promoters were backstage relishing the evening. Spread out like a food buffet was a long table with every kind of drug you could imagine there for the sampling. It was the rock and roll life at it's best.....and it's worst. I'm glad the bad portion never took hold.

In 1974 Mike Barbato left the band and the power trio continued on. Sad to say that we lost Mike a few years later to an untimely death. He was a good friend.

 In 1975, we were asked to play for a dance at a party out in the rural sticks. The girls who came to audition us were a few years younger than we were, but damn, one of them was hot! We got the gig, played the party, and I was in love. Her name was Nancy and I wanted her to be mine. No sparks that night from her point of view, but soon we were booked into a club called "Hot Toddy's" and Nancy was there often to hear us. I kissed her the first time one night between sets, out on the sidewalk, dripping sweat from playing so hard, and the rest is history. We have been together almost 30 years as of this writing. It’s profound when you actually find the love of your life!

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Nancy has honored me with 3 more wonderful kids and I couldn't be more proud of all of them: Michael, Mindy, Clint, and Shannyn.

During this set of gigs at Hot Toddy’s, a live recording was made by a friend, Winston, and I sure wish I could hear it today because I think by this time we were at the peak of our ability. Who knows whatever happened to it.

Speaking of recordings.... during the years 1966 through 1971 we are caught on tape either live at gigs or through our own tape recordings. These recording sessions that we did on our own were some of the best times we ever had. We would spend hours and days capturing the band live on tape, making album covers, liner notes, liner pictures, etc. We laughed, howled, went nuts, played good music, and just had a blast! I remember those sessions very fondly. For whatever reason, and I don't quite remember why, other than the 1975 Hot Toddy's live tape, no other recordings of SouthEnd exist between 1971 and 1975 (Must have been the women!). Too bad!!

Bobby C is currently, patiently, converting these old and fragile reel-to-reel tapes over to CD so we don’t lose them forever.

 

SAMPLE ALBUM COVERS BELOW:

To hear samples of live recordings from this album done in 1969, double-click the icons below
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(1 track mono tape with 1 microphone to capture this outside concert was all we had back in those days……..pretty crude compared to today……..I can only imagine how this would have sounded had we been able to record this professionally)

Eternal Flame - Summertime

Eternal Flame - Summertime

At this time I'd like to take a moment to thank some behind-the-scenes help we had throughout the years from our unofficial roadies. Randy Nairn (Wrangler) was probably there the longest with us - helping with the equipment on stage, microphone checks, running to get us beer and wine, packing it all up after the show and doing it all over again the next day.

Wrangler, I’ll always remember the cowboy hat, the devotion you had to the band, and getting that call every weekend because you needed a ride and were ready to party.

 

Others who traveled with us often lending a roadie's hand were Steve Smiley, Buz (Buzzy) Kerlin, Steve Stewert, Yogi, and many more I'm sure I shouldn't have forgotten.

Buzzy, I can’t remember the past without thinking of you and your “Samurai”, how you liked women packing some chunk in the butt, and you’re probably the hardest worker I have ever met.

Let's not forget during our very young years we were all fortunate enough to have great support from our parents, encouraging us along the way. Hey, someone had to get us to the gigs before we had our licenses!

            

And sometimes the support was overly enthusiastic:

The last group I want to recognize are those loyal fans that we had throughout the years. We were lucky enough to have had a big fan base all over Northern California during our 11 years. This includes fans from San Jose State who had us play on many occasions, promoters for festivals who were great enough to ask us to play along with the many famous bands of the time……..and everyone from Amador High School who hired us to play at every Friday night dance (and some of you go farther back than that, having followed our progress through our Grade school and Junior High years).

FUTURE ETERNAL FLAME/SOUTHEND ALUMNI (1968):

 

 

 

I talk with many of you today and you still have fond memories of those times with the band and I thank you for that. We garnered a good fan base throughout the Bay Area and I feel lucky to have been able to be part of that.

Speaking of Amador-faithful, can you see yourself in this pic? I see many a familiar face in the crowd (that’s me waving at the photographer - what a ham!, and Laura and Sammy looking at their picture being taken.

  

Some SouthEnd friends in 1992:

 

Closer to the band, we had a select group of fans who went to many, if not all, of our gigs. These would be people like my brother Jim, (who probably remembers every lick on every song we ever did), Gene Millspaugh (Geno), Joe Rose (Big Daddy), Buz, Steve Smiley, and Bill Raab (Doc).  

    

Jim, other than Nancy, you’ll always be the best partner I ever had. You’ve been with me the longest and hung through it all. And boy, do you have good musical tastes!

        

 

Geno, I’ll always remember the skinny dipping in the pool, the wildest parties - ever - at the cabin, and you just covering my back, no matter what. (And there were MANY times that we had to cover each other’s back!)

    

                          

Big Daddy, I’ll always remember the toughest son-of-a-bitch I ever met, yet with a heart of gold, the fast times, fast cars,

 

 fast girls, the fights, the drive-in blowouts…….. and wondering what the hell was going to happen after the one and only time I punched you in the face….. since it was the only way to get that crazed look out of your face - because you were about to take on 20 guys. (I guess it worked out ok because I’m able to write this)

 

 

Big Daddy and Buz              

Doc, I’ll always remember the best buddy I ever worked with in those days, rode motorcycles with, and the guy who saved my son’s life when he was a youngster………that waterfall was getting awfully close before you plucked him out of the water.

Most of you didn't miss a night of practice. You showed up to have a little party, listen to some good rock and roll, and to support this band of ours, SouthEnd.

Supporters like Jerry Seymour, and Gary Davila, and many others who I know I have forgotten to mention, spent many a gig out in the audience supporting us through it all. Again, I thank you for all those years you inspired us on.

                       

1975 was also a watershed year for SouthEnd. 3 out of 4 of us were now married and had day jobs too. It was time to go out on the road full time, work for that recording contract - or stay home with our wife and kids and see what "normal" was like. It was one of the most difficult decisions I ever made but I decided to go for a 9 to 5 job and get to know my family. We always said that if one of the three of us was to ever leave, then SouthEnd would never be the same and we should all go our own way. The group disbanded, remain friends to this day and we talk very often. There are times I wonder what would have been.....should I have gone the extra mile? Would our family lives be the same today if we had? I know from my perspective, probably not. I'm glad I did what I did......but.................!

Bobby C. went on to future musical success with other bands that he headlined, most notably with his band Evergreen. They had a hit and put out a few recordings. I always liked that band -  got to attend some of their gigs and even got to jam with them a few times and had the time of my life each time.

To hear Evergreen playing “Find Another Fool”, double-click the icon below (This may take a minute):
Eternal Flame - Summertime

Bobby C. flattered me beyond measure when he wrote a song about me, cars, girls, partying, and our days together growing up in our small town. (If you saw the movie, “American Graffiti”, that was exactly how it was for us going through life in High School)

The song’s called “P-Town” and I think he put it on the “B” side  of one of his records….. and I have a copy that, to this day, I play it when I'm cruising in my 1965 Plymouth.

Half the time it brings tears to my eyes when I hear it….and half the time I laugh.  Either way, it takes me back to my youth.

To hear Evergreen playing “P-Town”, double-click the icon below (This may take a minute):
Eternal Flame - Summertime

 

Bobby C. still has his hand in music one way or another, giving lessons to the next generation of rock and rollers, and playing occasional dates, while putting in the "normal" 9 to 5 job.

To hear a sample of “Route 66” performed live by Bobby C in the 90’s, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

Scotty also had future musical success with various bands and also put out some recordings.  One of Scotty's bands, Uncle West - again featuring Kirk, played at my wedding. He went into the trades doing 9 to 5, but still keeps his skills honed also on the side.

Me, I moved East with my family in 1992. My wife and I bought the The Brick Store, the oldest general store in America. What a life!

Bobby C. called me awhile back and asked if I'd like to try 6 months in Vegas or Reno as a house band. You talk about tempting!!! Man, was I in turmoil for awhile. But hey, I'm  50 now and my life with my family is just the best and I don't know how good I'd be anymore. (my buddy Ron, another great guitarist, says any of us playing rock and roll now should be called "The Rocking Chairs") 

I get the occasional high by playing with the original SouthEnd power trio at our High School reunions and such.  It sure is a great time! Hopefully we can play at our 50th reunion! What a kick, don’t you think Bobby C. and Scotty? Hey Rich, want to join us?

 

 

 

         

 

 

FOR YOUR COMPARISON:         (MY HOW WE’VE AGED!)

1965 ROBIN AND THE HOODS            1992 BROTHERS

  

 

 

                        

I am VERY proud to have been part of this band! One could not spend a better 11 years than I did with this band and the gang around us.

Bobby C, Scotty, Big Daddy, Geno, Wrangler, Doc, Buzzy, Ron, Craig, Jim, and Nancy: Most people in life are just lucky enough to have a best friend……..I was lucky enough to have ALL OF YOU!!!!

You guys represent some of the best times of my life!

Thanks for the memories!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for a great life!

Postscript:

Since 2004 I have actually formed a band here on the East Coast and we DO call ourselves “The Rocking Chairs”. It features my brother, Jim, on bass guitar, my buddy, Ron, on lead guitar, and my buddy, Craig, on rhythm guitar.

Ron: You are the man! Always there for me and the family………..couldn’t imagine life without all of us together.

Craig: You entered the picture the latest, but quickly became part of the family……….it wouldn’t be the same without having the “big guy” around.

One thing we Rocking Chair’s do, besides having fun playing music, is we sure LAUGH A LOT.

It sure is a great time….and all my  kids now get to at least see and hear the old man play like the old days (or at least attempt to).

 

To hear sample 1 of All Right Now (live 2004) by The Rocking Chairs, double click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

To hear sample 2 of All Right Now (live 2004) by The Rocking Chairs, double click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

To hear The Rocking Chairs performing a live 2004 version of “Bad Boy”, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

 To hear The Rocking Chairs performing a live 2004 version of “You Really Got Me”, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

To hear The Rocking Chairs performing a live 2004 version of “Key To The Highway”, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

To hear The Rocking Chairs performing a live 2004 version of “Fortunate Son”, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

To hear The Rocking Chairs performing a live 2004 version of “Slow Down”, double-click the icon below
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Eternal Flame - Summertime

 

Some great things happened to The Rocking Chairs in late 2005. Our CD, RAW, was heard by a famous band in Liverpool, KAPPA, and they asked us to open for them on 2 nights on Mathew Street in Liverpool. They also, got the world-famous Cavern Club to hear our CD and we were asked to perform there for one night. As most of you know, The Cavern Club is the stage where The Beatles were discovered and played over 290 shows. Well, we lived our dream during the first week of November and played 3 shows in Liverpool. The crowds were great, the venues were packed, the reviews were great and we had the time of our lives. If you would like to get more detail on this, please see our website http://therockingchairsband.com

 

 

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